Queering as a Way of Life
Queering is not about being queer but about doing queer – about going beyond binaries of gender and sexuality, questioning accepted perspectives, and challenging and upending normative ways of being in the world.
Queering to me is thinking, being, living and loving outside societal norms.
I am out. A postcard from a stranger that I imagine to be queer or trans*[1] or both tells me…
I remember realising that ‘gender’ was a construct when I was 9 or so, that it wasn’t real. I was…
Parenting is an odd space. It comes chock full of all kinds of normative strictures and regulations.
When the hunk of a football player kicks the football, it swerves towards the right and bounces off the goalpost…
To queer something is to disrupt normative frameworks, to imagine and create new modes of being (Pirani & Daskalopoulou, 2022)….
Queering, as a theoretical and practical approach, has emerged as a powerful means of challenging and dismantling established politics, power…
Looking back at this piece, written seven years ago, the core issues that I identified then remain significant and relevant….
Wicked Little Letters (2023) is based on a true story of a scandal in the early 1920s in the seaside…
The most satisfying spiritual and sexual experiences I’ve had were not in my twenties, thirties or even forties. They have been in my 50’s. The most insightful spiritual insights, and the most orgasmic orgasms have both arrived in middle age.
At TARSHI, we see queering as more than just an adjective; it’s a verb, an action that involves questioning accepted…
If you’ve got a body, in which you’re going to negotiate this life, you have to know how it works.
Like failure, longing is not interested in happy endings – whether of straight or non-heterosexual relations.
How did isolation work for those of us who are already quarantined in perpetuity by the cis-heteronormative gaze?